Hey Guys Ralph Bear Here
I'm Currently have to put a possibly Temporary Hold on Commissions for now Due to the fact that I
1. Currently Need the Extra Time to Start Editing My Next "The Stupid Super Hero Movie Reviews Series" Episode
2. My Dad Is Teaching me how to drive and I need to hit the gym, lord knows I'm over due for one.
3. Looking for a job
4. My Mom just got out of a big Abdominal Hernia Surgery
Let's Explain that Last one.
My Mom just had Abdominal Hernia Surgery and thus have a HUGE cut down on said abdominal that leads down to her crotch area....yeeeesh. and Since she has TennCare those doctors won't bother letting her recover in the comforts of a hospital and drop her off at my home thus not only she's suffering more or less (Don't worry my dad is getting on their case on this one), but since she cannot go to work I have to be the man of the house along with my dad and brothers to take care of things while she's in bed.
It's not gonna be easy since I don't have a job, It's gonna be really hard to at least help pay for food and other tools to take care of her for the house. So My Attention on the computer Especially the more time consuming Art Commissions, I've gotta hold those I'm currently working on and focus on taking care of mom and work out my personal life and a review episode I promise to bring up before HORROR MONTH next month.
If anyone would like to help, you can donate me money on Paypal through my email address
For those who don't got an account here's the donation linkwww.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webs…
Just send ANY amount more or less, it doesn't matter as long it'll help me buy food for the house until mom is well enough to get back to work and on her feet.
And please don't comment that you "Don't got a paypal account" or "I don't got any money" If ya don't, ya don't. Sorry, just got tired of hearing those repetitive comments, plus I'm just stressed because of my mom right now.
Just giving out said heads up, and I'd appreciate for the support. peace
UPDATE -- DAY 1
Day one was kinda scary. I have to learn Alot of things on taking care of a mother who has 94 stitches on her Abdominal and crotch area. Man, mom moves so limited it's time consuming and worry some. I really thought she's gonna Accidently fall down and cause even further damage. Dad told me and my brothers and sister Caitlyn to keep a hear out for my mom due to her yell ALOT more quieter than usual. I was busy with something on the computer and I told my brother to keep a hear out on Mom BUT a few minutes later, Dad came rushing in and told me Mom got outta bed on her own and limp to the bathroom with a walker to the bathroom and I didn't know. I told my brother to keep a hear out but nope, he was listening to music on his mp3.
I mean she Could've fallen at some point, she's just super lucky that Dad came in. For now on I won't depend too much on others and try to keep an eye on Mom at all times...No, it's not "Kinda Scary" it's "Really Scary"
My Dad use a bit of his pay check to buy the family dinner just fried chicken and some peach flavored tea for now, as food is dropping but water is still plentiful just refill our just finished bottles of tea and refill it with water.
As for jobs. I seem to lost my Dollar Tree Application and Currently been looking for it, no such luck so I've gotta rewrite a new one but later on in the day I might make a new application for Wal-mart, Taco Bell or at least Game Stop, Hope I get Game Stop.
So yeah, That's all I've got on my journal today laters.
UPDATE DAY 2-3
So Far My I was alot more vigilant than usual to the point of being unhealthy about it, but it shows I care...My Mom became alot more daring as she's a stubborn ol' bird (ok she's not that old) but the stubborn part is very true as she slept on the edge of the bed and nearly fell as she gotten too relaxed and careless and luckily me and my dad manages to caught her in time.
We gain visitors 2 really, one of my mom's usual customers at her job came over and donate us 60$ for the trouble and we manage to eat pizza at Little Caesar's and my Aunt Peggy as she help remove the bandages off of mom and even today I am still to scared and nervous to witness the stitches. Brrr...
Now on the 3rd and so far recently my mom gotten so confident despite her condition that she manage to walk from her room and all the way down to the kitchen without the assistance of a walker. She stumbled a little and I manage to catch her and bring a walker in case walking on her own be too much.
So far mom is doing much better and my dad should be getting back to work eventually but due to mom being too confident to the point she walks out on her own without me, dad, my bros, and my walker I'm afraid that she might screw up and hurt herself and dad have to take more off days to help her recover, and if that's the case he won't get paid and it might get worse.
I'm currently saving up the donation so I can cash a check to help back up my dad until she's at least strong enough to not need my help as much or at least drive a car without feeling nauseous every now and then. I blame mostly for the meds really.
UPDATE DAY 4
Alright Things getting a bit better. Mom is now at this point walking somethings with the walker and sometimes not and almost not at all for a couple of hours. Still had to guide her out through the steep porch, and into and out of the car since she can properly drive without getting nauseous.
She still suffer from pain from her stitches that only meds can handle it so she's still not at work. Thus we're still having trouble with the food and stuff, I'm just await on enough amount of donations and cash a check to help hold us out until mom is healthy enough to get back to work.
I heard my sister seen mom's stitches and I'm still too nervous to see those...I fear I might un-see it or something.
UPDATES coming soon tomorrow or in a few days